The first time I heard about the story of the Prodigal Son, I really thought the story was all about the ungrateful son. No, it wasn't. There were three stories: yes, the son's story; the father's story; and, the elder son's story.
Story #1. The Prodigal Son.
By asking for his inheritance, he appeared to have wished his father dead. Then by squandering this inheritance, he completely displayed his lack of entrepreneurial skills that his father had. His saving grace was the humility that crept into him and overcame him, which was why towards the end of the story he was on his way back to his father.
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The father ran with glee towards the approaching prodigal son. Image courtesy of BiblePictureGallery.com |
The loving father welcomes back his prodigal son (Luke 15:20). Take note of the elder brother leaning on the tree. He may have been thinking, "Buti nga sa yo." The painting is by Harold Copping as featured in biblepicturegallery.com.
Lessons for Cool Catholics?
1.
Be an Entrepreneur! You think I'm kidding? I'm serious. I know our priests and bishops do not specifically teach us this, but, hey,
fix your attitude about money, then go ahead and create wealth. Read the books by Rober Kiyosaki, especially Rich Dad, Poor Dad; Cashflow Quadrant and Rich Dad's Guide to Investing.
God's Word for You Today, March 14, 2009
Saturday in the Second Week in Lent
1st Reading: Mi 7:14-15, 18-20
Responsorial Psalm: Ps 103:1-2, 3-4, 9-10, 11-12
Response: The Lord is kind and merciful.
Gospel: Lk 15:1-3, 11-32
Verses are taken from the Lectionary for the Holy Mass. They are read in all Holy Mass celebrations throughout the world today.
2.
Do not burn bridges! You need people more than you know, especially those whom you think make your life miserable.
3.
Be humble now, not later. Frankly, many of my life's lessons revolve around this issue.
4.
Humble too late? Be humble anyway. Ask help. Life goes on, you know. Eat your pride. Swallow your ego. There's much more to life than pride.
5.
There are consequences for every action. In the story, not even forgiveness from the father erased the fact that the younger son lost his inheritance. The good news to that is, he earned back his father's respect, which is more precious to any son than inheritance. You won't believe that, do you? Better believe it. And with that renewed self-esteem, the son can go out and create for himself wealth that's even greater than the one he lost.
Story #2. The Loving Father.
At first I thought the father was stupid. He could have just disowned the son and drive him away. Imagine this ungrateful son seemingly wishing him dead? Come on! Get real! But the father did not disown the son!
As I matured in faith, I realize this father was not stupid at all. In fact, this father was smarter than I thought. He saw that the only way he could teach values to his son was to let this son and go and make his own mistakes and learn life's lessons on his own. We don't know the father in the story. Who knows he learned his lessons the same way? Maybe he saw younger himself in this younger son and knew letting him go was the only way to go!
As far as the father was concerned, he was successful! Don't you think so?
It was a great risk this father took. What if this son won't return? What if his "experiment" would fail? He must have been looking out of the window everyday wanting to find out! Or, why else did he run towards his son the moment he saw him walking back towards home?
Smart, I think. Very, very, very cooooool!
Lessons for Cool Catholics?
1.
Sometimes, we just have to let go of people. Sometimes, letting go of people is the most loving thing to do!
2.
When we let go of people, let's wish them well. This can hurt, but let's wish them well. You haven't let go of people in your heart when you don't wish them well. So, wish them well.
3.
When they come back (sincerely), let's embrace them back. I know this is hard to do. But hey, you might like the reformed person much better than before! Who knows?
4.
People do change. The emotional reward for being part of it is priceless. Let's play our part very well. Don't be casual about it. Filipinos are guilty of being casual, and casualness led to casualties. Tell me I'm wrong.
5. I must add this...
Sometimes, people just don't come back. Admit it, part of #1 above is the possibility that people will no longer come back. Either they have made it on their own, or ... they just don't want to come back at whatever cost. Sometimes, it's you, the father, who need to change.
Story #3. The Elder Son
I'll be short in this one. The elder son represents the pharisees, the "perfect" people in society. They follow everything in the books, and thinks of the rest as inferior and despicable. Gosh, need I say more?
The younger son squandered the money. Can you guess what the elder son squandered?
His heart, the seat of wisdom.
Well, I guess the elder son just almost squandered it. If he listened to his father, then he would have retained it. If he didn't, it would show up in his bottom line one day.
To be judgmental is the greatest folly that Jesus was telling the Pharisees that day. Come to think of it, is there a chance you are a pharisee too?
Lessons for Cool Catholics?
1.
There's more to life than money. In fact, money is a creation. If you miss the "more to life" part, you might lose out on the "money" part too, if not now, then later. Look at the financial geniuses in the USA today. Have they learned their lesson? When they missed out on the values that USA represented, look what happened to their economy? Too bad when USA sneezes the rest of the world catches colds, including the Philippines.
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Entrepreneurship comes from the heart, not from compliance. I could almost hear with my own ears the elder son complaining about not being able to celebrate with friends. Come on! It should be clear to the elder son right there and then that he did all those simply out of compliance and not out of full understanding of the entrepreneruial lessons his father gave him. That was why his heart was full of hate. If so, wasn't he much different from his younger brother after all?
3.
People are valuable. To despise people doesn't pay dividends. Grow them!
That's my take on the gospel today. Hope it helps.
Comments and objections are welcome, in the spirit of growth.
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.